Well we had court today, and it didn’t go as I hoped. The master said that circumstances haven’t changed enough to modify the visitation to allow me to have the first right of refusal & have a drop off time specified. She also denied my request for “that man’s” girlfriend’s info even though he admitted that she’s over his time the majority of the time he has b. That’s fine because I already have her name, address, & phone number. I also ran her name through the state case search; she has a lot of moving violations. “That man’s” argument was that he never leaves b with her, so I asked him who watches b while he showers. This dumb ass says that he lets b run in & out of the shower while he bathes- very safe super dad! They better hope no harm comes to b while he’s with them, or there will be hell to pay! Oh yeah, then he said that if I date someone & have him around b, he wants to meet the guy. I don’t see how that’s different from what I’m asking! I don’t need to meet the chick, I just need to know who to call if something happens to b!
The master also denied my request for modification for child support, which was also fine. I just wanted to verify that he actually does have insurance coverage for b. He’s claiming that he only makes $16/hour, yet he pays a mortgage & child support, along with other expenses. I’m pretty sure that he’s hiding his assets. Both times he failed to bring copies of his tax returns, although I provided his lawyer with a copy of mine. He submitted these bogus looking pay stubs (see below). Has anyone ever seen stubs that look like this??? Even the master admitted something was off with them and noted that it was highly unlikely that he’s supporting himself on $16/hr, so she denied his request to have me pay his attorneys fee. My takeaway from this is to subpoena his financial info. Now, I’m trying to decide whether or not to try & obtain his real financial info….
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